being selective

Wether you are choosing friends or more than friends be selective.  Now that I am close to forty, more mid late thirties,  ok ok 38,  I realize you don't have to be besties with every person that comes along.  We all know that not everyone has to like you but did you know that you do not need to like everyone?  As long as your not basing it on race creed or religion, because that would make you a jerk.    I mean there are plenty of reasons I don't like the lady who is into faith healing besides her faith.  She has an ear piece she is always talking into and I am always duped into thinking its me she is talking to.

You can be selective.  Your heart is a beautiful fragile thing that you should guard with your strong brilliant brain.  You do not need to accept every friend request that is thrown your way.  (Sometimes I have accepted waited a week or two then unfriended and blocked.  Whoops it was a total accident I was wondering why you never posted.)  What can I say I hate to hurt peoples feelings.

Do not be friends with your boss.  Be friendly but do not put your boss in the situation where they have to pull the boss card out and lose a friend.  That would be unsettling for both of you.

Do be friends with your family if they are not total jerks.  My sisters are my best friends and so low maintenance.  They also sometimes read my blog.  Hi Girls!

Unfortunately I have a soft spot for weirdos and end up caring for those odd ducks that talk about fifty shades of grey and when talking about first aid they ask if I want to try the heiny lick on them.  and say get it like Heimlich?  Because I love real people.  I love not guessing what they are really thinking or saying.  You just know.  They are rude and inappropriate and never mean to hurt a soul.

Put your oxygen mask on first!  Make sure to take care of you.  You are no good to anyone if you get to broken caring for others.  Trust me on that one.  That is why I have been writing every day.  Doing a little rebuilding by taking a few minutes to write my own thoughts down just for me.  Love yourself the best you can and don't take any wooden nickel friends.  I keep writing fiends so I thought that word wanted in bad enough I would let it.

Have a great night.

:L