Thursday, December 10, 2015

What are you holding on to?

Tonight my oldest went to give my husband a hug and he almost knocked him over.  My husband yelled and my oldest ran to his bed upset that he may have hurt his dad.  I made my husband come in and talk to the boy.  I told him that we all do things on purpose or not that we regret.  If we don't face them they stick to us an we hold on to them forever. I let him in on the secret that we all do things we regret and that is part of life.

I told him about the time there was a new girl at school who was so pretty that the boy I liked started to like her instead of me.  Her name was Regina.  I told a few kids her name was pronounced Ra gina.  Like it rhymes with vagina.  Even some teachers started calling her that.  I just told a few people but it really blew up.  I still feel bad about that.

It is crazy.  I bet that she never thinks of it but I still feel bad about those few days even now.  The whole rubber and glue rigmarole.  Growing up is hard.  Hurting someone, weather you mean to or not, leaves a mark.  So take care how you treat others and yourself.





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